A good son wants every parent and father. Everyone wants his son to go on their stated guidance. Give them all what they want. There is nothing more in this world than the parents. If you get away from them even a minute, then you will find out what their love was for you. Whenever you love your parents with selflessness and respect, they will not only like them but also how much of your work will be done for them.
How to become a good son
Whatever work you do, you will get success. Anyway, if you have any problems then your parents will be with you. That is why it is necessary to not leave any effect to the service of parents who have forfeited their happiness and have robbed them over many years. So you can make your parents happy and become a good person in the eyes of a good son and even the world.
1) Accept your responsibilities
This will be a problem for you, but if you solve your responsibilities without your parents, then your parents will be very happy with this. Not only will he be proud of it but you also feel proud of yourself. You have to understand what you can do for the good of your parents as a son. The goal of being a good beta is not that you are reducing the grief of your parents, but you have started making more moves for happiness and success.
2) Respect the people
Where it comes to respect, it is not seen that you are respecting your parents and not giving any respect to anyone outside. This leads to the conclusion that you are blunt in your parents’ eyes. As long as you do not respect your gurus, other family members, relatives and even the village or an old man, your respect will be low in front of your parents. If you respect any other person, he will surely think that this boy is from a good house. This will move your parents’ name a lot and they will see you like a good son.
3) Hearting on your studies
Every parent dreams that their son will focus on studies and get close to the good numbers. So that his name came not only in school but also in the village. Whenever you are top in your school then your parents’ name will come forward and pride of pride can not be more for them. And anyway, you do not have good marks in today’s time, when you go to big classes, you do not get admission and you have to take a lot of shocks for the further job. Therefore, if anybody has a parent, he wants his son to be happy.
4) Believe everything
Any parents try to make their child’s life good. Even if they have pain in scolding you but they want their son not to spoil and think about your life. So they do the same thing to do the work, whether you like it or not but they say all about your happiness. So do not be afraid of a good son like you, but proudly think that my parents will not do wrong for me and obey everything they have.
5) Love your sister too
Now it is not that you do not love your sister in the pursuit of making a good son, wherever you keep on crying there. Say one thing brother and sister’s love is unbreakable. Regardless of how much you fight in the house you may fight, but if there is any problem outside you can never leave one with another. So your parents will be happy as much as you love your sister. Apart from this, the relationship of love in both of you will also be deep.
6) Do not get addicted to drugs
Nobody’s parents think that their son would ever fall in the dirty activities. And in today’s time, everyone has fallen into these dirty activities. Yes, if you drink it a little but never drink it, but if you have become so etc. then understand that on one side your body will be harmed and together you will be filled with dirty thoughts and any parents Would not think that his son would be like that
7) Spend time with them
Much good inspirational things than parents can hardly give you any. They will tell you about the decreasing sequence of your life. Not only will this inspire you, but you will get a good opportunity to strengthen your life. You will know about every stop of life. You will never have any problem in combating any problem.
8) Survivors of lying
Everyone is definitely lying to defend themselves but if you have any mistake, then do not misguide your parents by telling a lie, but tell them clearly. If you are lying to him for a small matter today, then you will have to lie for big things slowly and on the day you know about this, then you will understand what will be done on their heart. Can.
So friends should keep their parents happy all the time and serve them. Become a good son and win his heart so that he will be proud to be a good parent. Anyway, “Parents Guru Devta” line is the best and the big thing. Parental status is above the Guru and God. So until you make your parents happy, you can not become a good son.
Read in the Hindi Version: –
Ek achchha bete kee chaahat har maan-baap kee hotee hai. har koee chaahata ki usaka beta unake bataaye gae maargadarshan par chale. unhen vo sab de jo vo chaahate hain. maan-baap se badhakar is duniya mein kuchh bhee nahin hai. agar aap unase ek bhee minat door ho jao to aapako pata lag jaayega kee unaka pyaar aapake lie kitana bada saahas tha. jab bhee aap apane maata-pita ko nisvaarth bhaav se pyaar aur ijjat denge to na sirph unhen achchha lagega balki unakee dua bhee aapake kitane kaam aaegee.
Ek achchha beta kaise baneny
Aap jis bhee kaam ko karoge aapako saphalata hee milegee. vaise bhee agar aapako koee bhee pareshaanee aatee hai to usame aapake maata-pita aapake saath honge. isalie jarooree hai ki un maan-baap kee seva ka koee bhee asar nahin chhoden jinhonne kitane saalon se apanee har khushee ko chhodakar aapapar luta diya. isalie aap apane maata-pita ko khush kar ek achchhe bete yahaan tak kee duniya kee najar mein ek achchhe insaan ban sakate hain.
1) Apanee jimmedaariyon ko sveekaar karen
yah aapake lie thoda pareshaanee ka vishay rahega lekin agar aap apane maata-pita ke bina hee apanee zimmedaariyon ko khud hal kar denge to aapake maata-pita is baat se bade hee khush honge. isase na sirph unhen garv hoga balki aapako bhee apane aap par garv mahasoos hoga. aapako samajhana hoga kee ek bete ke roop mein aap apane maata-pita kee bhalaee ke lie kya-kya kar sakate hain. ek achchha beeta hone ka lakshy yah nahin hai kee aap apane maata-pita ka duhkh kam kar rahe hain balki aap khushee aur saphalata kee aur kadam daalane lage ho.
2) Logon kee ijjat karen
Jahaan ijjat kee baat aatee hai vahaan ye nahin dekha jaata ki aap apane maan-baap ko hee ijjat de rahe hain aur baahar kisee koee bhee ijjat nahin de rahe. isase yah nishkarsh nikalata hai kee aap apane maata-pita kee aankhon mein dhul jhaunkh rahe hain. jab tak aap apane guruon, parivaar ke any sadasyon, rishtedaaron aur yahaan tak kee gaanv ya kisee boodhe aadamee ko ijjat nahin dete aapake maata-pita ke saamane aapakee ijjat kam hogee. agar aap kisee doosare ko ijjat denge to jaroor vo sochenge kee kitane achchhe ghar se hai yah ladaka. isase aapake maata-pita ka naam kaaphee aage jaayega aur vo aapako ek achchhe bete kee tarah dekhenge.
3) Apanee padhaee par dil lagaana
Har maan-baap ka sapana hota hai ki unaka beta padhaee par dhyaan de aur achchhe nambaron se paas hoye. jisase usaka naam schhool hee nahin gaanv mein bhee aaye. jab bhee aap apane schhool mein top karenge to aapake maata-pita ka naam aage aaega aur isase achchha garv kee baat unake lie aur nahin ho sakatee hai. aur vaise bhee aaj ke samay mein aapake achchhe marks nahin hain to jab aap badee kakshaon mein jaate hain vahaan admission nahin milata aur aage naukaree ke lie kaaphee dhakke khaane padate hain. isalie kisee ke bhee maata-pita hon vo apane bete hee har khushee ko chaahate hain.
4) Unakee har baat maanen
Koee bhee maan-baap apane bachche kee zindagee ko achchha banaane kee koshishah karate rahate hain. chaahe unhen aapako daantane mein dard hota ho lekin vo chaahate hain ki unaka beta bigade nahin aur apane zindagee ke baare mein soche. isalie vo aapako vahee kaam karane ke lie karate hain chaahe aapako achchha lagata ho ya nahin lekin vo aapakee khushee ke baare mein ye sab kahate hain. isalie aapako ek achchhe bete kee tarah dar se nahin balki garv se soche kee mere maata-pita mere lie galat nahin karenge aur unakee har baat ko maanen.
5) Apanee bahan ko bhee pyaar karen
ab ye nahin kee aap ek achchha bete banaane kee chakkar mein apanee bahan se pyaar hee nahin karate hain aap use jahaan-tahaan rulaate rahate ho. ek baat kahen bhaee-bahan ka pyaar atoot hota hai. chaahe aap ghar mein kitana bhee ladate-jhagadate honge lekin baahar koee bhee samasya ho aap ek doosare ka saath kabhee nahin chhod sakate hain. isalie aap jitana bhee apane bahan ko pyaar karenge aapake maata-pita to khush honge isake alaava aap donon mein bhee pyaar ka rishta gahara hoga.
6) Nashe ka aadee nahin hon
kisee ke bhee maata-pita nahin sochate kee unaka beta kabhee bhee gandee harakaton mein pad jaen. aur aaj ke samay mein har koee in gandee harakaton mein pad gaya hai. haan doston ke saath kabhee kabaar halakee drink kar bhee lekin kabhee bhee isaka aadee nahin hoie, agar aap isake aadi ho gae to samajh leejiye ki ek taraph to aapaka shareer ka nukasaan hoga saath mein aap gande vichaaron se bharate jaayenge aur koee bhee maan-baap nahin sochega kee unaka beta aisa bane.
7) Unake saath samay bitaen
maan-baap se jyaada achchhee preranadaayak baaten shaayad hee aapako koee de sake. ve aapako apanee zindagee ke ghatate badhate kram ke baare mein aapako jaroor bataenge. isase na sirph aapako prerana milegee balki aapako apanee zindagee ko majaboot banaane ka ek achchha avasar milega. aapako zindagee ke har padaav ke baare mein pata lagega. jisase aapako kabhee bhee kisee bhee pareshaanee ka mukaabala karane mein koee bhee pareshaanee nahin aaegee.
8) Jhooth bolane se bache
Har koee apane bachaav ke lie jhooth bolata jaroor hai lekin agar aapase koee bhee galatee hotee hai to aap jhooth bolakar apane maata-pita ko gumaraah nahin karen balki unhen saaf-saaf kah den. agar aaj aap ek chhotee baat ke lie unase jhooth bol rahe hain to aapako dheere-dheere badee baaton ke lie jhooth bolana padega aur jis din aapake maata-pita koee is baat ka pata lagega to unake dil par kya gujaregee ye aap achchhee tarah se samajh sakate hain.
Isalie doston apanee maan-baap ko har samay khush rakhe unakee seva karen. unhen ek achchhe bete banakar unaka dil jeeten jisase unhen ek achchha maan-baap banane ka garv hoga. vaise bhee “maata pita guru devata” lain sabase achchhee aur badee baat hai. maata-pita ka darja guru aur bhagavan se uppar hota hai. isalie jab tak aap apane maata-pita ko khush nahin karenge tab tak aap ek achchhe putr nahin ban sakate hain.